1.Guys like physical contact. They won't always be able to figure out what's OK, and whats a no-no. It's important that they are told by their partner what they should and shouldn't do. Their feelings will not be hurt. If you prefer, tell him where the lines are drawn on your body. It's not going to ruin the moment for him. If anything, it will be a relief so he knows the boundaries. Don't think, "He'll figure it out". Don't try and give him signals, tell him verbally.
2.Guys like to know that their partner feels grateful to be with him. If you make him feel like he isn't good enough, he will be more jealous of other guys - he may leave you. Guys don't like feeling inferior any more than girls do.
3.Guys enjoy the touch of a female; very soft and pleasant.As rule number 5 says, guys don't mind touching - put your hand on his face. Run your fingers up and down his arm. Hold his hand against your face or chest.
4.Maintaining the relationship is very important. The first few months will be easy; you are in the heat of a young relationship. Don't fall under the false impression that you don't have to put forth anything. He will get bored, or feel unappreciated. Remember what it was like in the beginning, when you'd both do anything for each other. Keep that mindset. Treat him as someone who can't be lost.
5.Ask, don't assume. If a man wants to know how you're feeling, he'll usually ask. Females think they have a "sixth sense" about guys, so they read into everything: If he's quiet, it means he doesn't like you. If he looks at another girl, you're about to get dumped. If he doesn't email you back right away, its over, Right? No Way! Calm down, take a deep breath and if you still just have to know what's going on in his head, ask the dude.
End for today :)
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